Alla Kaplan/writer
1 min readMar 9, 2024

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Very interesting article. As a former stripper who has had her share of table dances and champagne rooms is that men will reveal their fantasies to a total stranger when the woman is naked in front of them and that is why they go to strip clubs and escorts/sex workers. I have probably seen it all or heard about fetishes from women I worked with. In my personal life, my ex-husband's number one fantasy/fetish was to be with two women or watch two women together. But I suspect that his fantasy/fetish of seeing bisexuality was that he was afraid to admit his own bisexuality and it turned him on to manifest it with women. And although he would never let me be with other men, it turned him on to see other men watching me be a sexual being on stage. He taught me to see women the way men see them, i.e. how they look at different body parts and what turns a man on. You can read all about it in some chapter of the book I'm writing ' The Life of A Jewish Stripper'. One thing I learned from my ex-husband is that, pardon my language, men will stick their dick into almost anything. I personally had customers who enjoyed foot fetishes such as sucking on toes or having me grind my heels into their shoulders. What I learned is some men cannot be aroused unless the fetish is complete.

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Alla Kaplan/writer
Alla Kaplan/writer

Written by Alla Kaplan/writer

I am a writer working on my memoir. I also have a podcast called The Jewish Stripper which you can find on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@AllaKaplan3270

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